a time on cozy nights

the best of times..as the snow falls around us

PICTURE THIS ..CLOSE YOUR EYES FOR JUST A MOMENT

fore cast snowed in...with your loved one

WHAT DOES THAT MEAN ..soft tender moments of cuddling
rekindling that love that has been left aside and you have been so
caught up in every day life..you forgot your treasure ..your partner.

IN THESE NEXT FEW MONTHS ...the season offers so many times
to cradle her ..to do that simple thing..sharing a cup of hot chocolate
in front of the fire place with the warm glow...her reflection

TELL HER HOW MUCH YOU CARE.

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so what makes us parents

SO AT WHAT POINT DOES ONE BECOME A PARENT.

Is it at the moment of birth and we stare at this wonder we have created and feel so over whelmed . We are not sure to cry or laugh or what emotion that it brings to us.

The father is so pleased he runs around and offers everyone in sight that he is a

FATHER, he had passed his right of manhood...gee...........how wonderfull.

SO HAS HE COMPLETED HIS OBLIGATION ..to the human race..that we agree.

so what if he leaves the picture ...he did his right ..but did he.

A child needs the influence of both a mother and a father , it does not matter if it is

the biological parent that is sharing this love and devotion and meeting the needs of

this child. It is the warmpth and loving arms that this baby or child feels. The one

who feeds and cares for him, gives him the love to grow.

If a child does not feel love if he is not touched an nutured from birth to those

tender years , he learns not to cry and not to feel anything .

He does not matter ...to anyone. He feels invisible ..and not wanted.

So if a child is then shown love ..he flourishes like a flower that is meant to grow.

He shines in your love.

It does not matter if you gave birth to that child or the child came into your life

and a bonus parent . That is what I like to call step parents..you are a bonus to

raising and helping with that child. An influence and a gift to share your

abilities and strengths and love.

If you are adopting a child, then he is your chosen child.

You CHOSE him, just like you were chosen to be a child to be loved and cared

for.

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